Why is this man doing this to me?
I fell deeply for a man about 2 years ago. He was a local politician. I worked on his unsuccessful campaign and we became fast friends. Soon, I was staying at his home while he was deployed taking care of his teenaged daughter. I became very attached to her and she to me. She began to tell me about all of the women and men he was involved with and how she did not want me to get hurt. She told me everytime he met someone nice, somehow it never worked out. Shortly thereafter, he invited me and some of my friends to a fundraiser. He was introducing me as his ‘baby’ and made it clear that we were ‘together’. I had never had a man treat me in such a way. Later that same evening, some very young woman (close to his daughter’s age) elbowed me and had a confrontation with him, explaining that he had slept with her and dumped her, even though he told her they were in a relationship. After that, I pulled away from him. He began to email me pictures of him with famous people that he had copyshopped to make me think he knew them, he began emailing me pictures of him with other women with captions underneath, and he encouraged me to continue to see his daughter for her sake and when I did, he would pop up with a brand-new car,etc. so I stopped seeing her because it became intolerable. Last week, he called me out of the blue because he said he was thinking about me and wanted to reach out to me. He called to tell me that the baby that we talked about having, he had with the woman he met after me and she gave him the son he always wanted. He obviously didn’t want me…why won’t he just leave me alone? I don’t call him, email him, nothing
What are you doing there !! Leave him immediately and find a B/f for you to care about you !!
change your number. he’s trying to make you jealous by saying “this is what you could of had” but he had with another woman. this is border line stalking. you should tell him to leave you alone period or you are going to get a restraining order.
He’s doing it because he is used to getting what he wants from people. Change your phone number and block his emails. Any contact with him, even if it’s just answering the phone will only prove to him you are still interested and he will continue to harass you. Eventually he will move on to someone else and lose interest in you. You hurt his ego and now he is looking to hurt you. Save everything he sent you including emails or voice mail messeges for evidence just in case and get a restraining order if things get too bad.
This guy seems like a freak!!
Keep staying away from him hon because there is absolutely nothing you can gain from this relationship even if you were together by the way he is acting, It seems like after he got ”busted” he went into the stage where he was trying to impress you and get you back, it obviously didn’t work because you ignored him so he probably feels like hey what have i got to lose and just won’t leave you alone, he most likely had feelings for you on a different level from these other girls and when he realised it was over after you pulled away from him which is a very smart thing to do !! He is a Loser ! You can do so much Better!! I mean copyshopped?? Seriously, how sad can you get one day you will look at this and laugh!!
Good Luck xoxo
trying to make you jealous, because you are one woman who actually told him no, which he obviously doesn’t hear to often, so hes prolly obsessing over the fact that someone turned him down…he wants what he knows he cant have…don’t pay attention to him!
Hi, this is becoming borderline harassment from the sounds of it. This complete jerk (who by the way has no clue on how to treat someone properly, especially a lady) needs a head shake in the worst way. Obviously he’s not happy with the decision he made to find someone after you left him, or he’s so egomaniacal that he thinks he still has control over you. I can’t believe this man actually would think just because for example, he has a photoshopped copy of him with Brad Pitt it would make one iota of meaning in yours or anyone else’s life. Even if it were the real BP, who cares?! My advice, change your number, or if you don’t want to do that warn him the next time he calls you you will have no choice but to file a restraining order against him, if he wants to play hardball, tell everyone his name since he is a politician and he is walking a very fine line girl. Good Luck. Daniel.